Still the same train of though somewhat, however...is what I'm doing really the right thing to do, such a question comes up from time to time. She knows what her situation is, and has for years now, just the same she's known of what she has to do to get out of it, but she's never done what's required. In being my friend I naturally want to see her happy, but does she want to be happy, just what is going through that mind of hers? To push her in the right direction is what I always try to do, but she should make the decisions on her own, and I guess that I shouldn't try to force her to do anything even if it is something that will benefit her...in the end I just want to see her safe and happy.