Other than spoiled, you hit the nail on the head.. this is the friend I've mentioned before that has never worked and dropped out of the 2 days a week "college" she was attending on parent's dime.
She never did respond to my happy birthday messages, she ghosted me all day but was on the texting app every hour. Then I found out she's just fine apparently cus she's been chatting with our mutual friend like nothing is going on, she just won't talk to me. I just blocked her after that because I knew I was gonna lose my ever-loving checking the app over and over if she could contact me.
For the record, she's my longest standing/on paper closest friend, we have been friends for 8 years. And last year, despite us talking about it a couple of days before, she forgot my birthday and didn't say a word about it until 6 days after, where i got a png belated birthday card sent thru telegram. Which was rather hurtful at the time, but I forgave her, so this whole situation really baffles me. Tbf she has a track record of going out of her way to wallow in self pity, but frankly that's energy I just can't bear to be around, esp when I'm made to be the problem.
And in case anyone was wondering, the thing she wanted was an overnight trip out of state. I guess she expected me to be able to do that on a weekend with 3 days notice? Sorry but that's not how the world actually operates. I told my boss most of this as it developed and she was like "aren't you glad you didn't take off now?" LEL.