Really need to get my tech death project off the ground.
Just something I've been thinking about and something all artists and creative types can relate to.
When somebody compliments you on your craft, they awe and say, "You're so talented!"
And, I don't know about other artists or creative types, but I take that compliment as a back-handed compliment, because it ignores all of the countless hours I've spent cultivating, refining, and learning my craft, which happens to be music and guitar playing.
So, here's my take on talent.
Talent is a myth.
Expert skills and extraordinary abilities are determined solely by the amount of practice and, most importantly, (what people usually ignore), the METHOD of practice, and its quality and efficiency.
It's hard work and practice. Not talent.
In my experience, people use talent as either a cop-out, so they never have to cultivate or improve, or, they use it as an excuse to not learn or achieve what they want to achieve.
So many people would disagree with me, but anyone can learn to play guitar. I just am at the level I'm at simply because I've been doing it longer.
And I still think I have a lot to learn. I never stop. And that's what makes the difference. Others quit because they felt they didn't have the talent or knack for it.
Neither did I. I wasn't born with a guitar in my hands. I worked at it. I just never stopped working at it, and ever since I started when I was 7 years old, here I am 27 years later, still working at it.
If I had an innate gift, I wouldn't have to constantly work at it, I wouldn't have experienced skill regression (which I have before), I wouldn't have to constantly practice to maintain a minimum level of playing ability that meets my standards.
Ask any musician, athlete, artist, or what have you. None of them, in my experience, ever claim their success was the result of talent. In fact, in my experience, what you find is they frequently experience Imposter Syndrome, what I think is a specific and unique kind of anxiety surrounding creative types, high performers, and successful people. None of them feel they've earned their success. In fact, they feel like frauds, despite all the evidence to the contrary.
In fact, it's those that aren't experts that claim abilities that they don't possess. It's called the Dunning-Kruger Effect.
So don't tell me my success and skill as a musician is due to an innate gift. I can tell you it's not, and it's all because I just never stopped, and probably won't stop till the day I die.
Go out and do what you want to do, and don't stop just because you feel you suck ass at the beginning. It's okay to suck ass at the beginning. I sucked when I first started playing guitar, but I kept working at it, and I'm still working on it all the time.
Thanks for attending my Ted Talk.