I have no clue what you should do, but I never got much of a feeling that people hated you. THP even left and one of her reasons for leaving was because she was being cheated and lied to. I have no clue how that could happen to her... but whatever.
I'm sure there are more nice people around here. ZD is a rather large community, anyway. If you need to you can find a different forum community and chill there.
You're not alone out there. Anemos was also banned. Oh, how I missed his ramblings about his fall in Zelda Informer. Anyway, whatcha gonna do? I happens. :/
Hi Zarry! ... what? I just noticed Austin's post below...
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Austin
An administrator must have removed you from the shoutbox usergroup then. That's most likely permanent. I'd imagine that it's related to your ban from yesterday but I don't know for certain; I wasn't aware of this before you contacted me. If you need more information I suggest contacting an administrator or another moderator that you believe may have further insight into this issue.