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- Aug 10, 2013
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- Bacon is disgusting
B-b-b-but it's soooooo good! :sad:
Bacon is life. Bacon is love.
- Bacon is disgusting
I honestly think that's never happen. I always thought I'd just try once and if it didn't work out I'd just give up.
If I was desperate or really in love with that individual, I might bend my own rules to be with them though.
Sure, but not everyone can be so lucky as to find someone perfect on their first try. Although sometimes I feel like it would have been better if I waited till I loved someone before I slept with them, but because I didn't I can't exactly hold it against people who slept with people they didn't love. For some people sex is a casual thing.
Is that a good thing or a bad thing?
My above post should probably come as a disclaimer in that I don't expect everyone to share the same views I do and it's OK if they don't. People have diverse and different expectations for their relationship, and none is any better or worse than another, just what is right for that particular person.
To me, I don't place as big a value on sex as a lot of people, and while I understand being someone's first is a great thing I think love at any time can be wonderful and fulfilling no matter how many partners one has had before. I know couples who didn't meet until they were in their 50s, or even 80s! But they are still just as special. I also believe sex is just an act and that one can still hold meaningful relationships even if they have had casual sex at one time.
I do admit my view points might be out of place considering me and my gf have never had any other partners but each other in our lives, and that has worked out well for us, I just don't think it's necessarily that big a deal on a moral scale but I can understand on a personal scale how it might be important. If any of that makes sense lol.
I know you are dating Annie, but imagine if you can a situation where you find someone that you love but they have already been with someone else in the past. How would you feel about this?
I honestly think you are a bit naive, not to be rude, and it's due to your lack of experience. Hopefully you and Annie are happy and in love forever, but if that doesn't work out I think you'll find you change your mindset pretty quick.
inferno said:call of duty went to hell after world at war
- I don't understand the appeal of LoL (I'll admit though that the character design is pretty good)
OK, half of this became debate, when the OP said it shouldn't. But with that said, here's my list:
-People should save themselves for marriage. There's gotta be some kind of limit to romantic acts, where there's something that only people who have devoted themselves to only each other for life, ie people who love each other enough to get married, can do. Plus, there's always the issue of unwanted pregnancies, which can be avoided if people just saved themselves for people they'd actually want to have a baby with.
-The apocalypse will happen sometime soon. Not months or years soon, but in the next few centuries.
-Pernico is a ship that should remain one-sided, because Percabeth is too OTP for anyone to break it up.
-One Direction is annoying and not even that talented.
-Prejudice against anyone personally should be banned from the universe. People are people, no matter what they look like or what choices they make.
-Popular music is getting worse and worse, and less and less like music.
-People are becoming corrupt, and children know too much about mature things.
-It's OK to like childish things, no matter how old you are.
-Everything Is Awesome is a terrible song.
I don't even, I might add more stuff if I see fit.